So All New Things

Few weeks back I bought an epilator:


Kaspars recorded a video where I try it for the first time. That was funny! ;D But as I was in my underpants I am not comfortable with publishing it anywhere ;D But I think the thought of me laughing and little bit screaming is enough for you all. ;DDDDDD

And I am Still…


And I bought these (pink quartz; tiger’s eye; olivine; kyanite and that yellowish is citrine) :


And Feja (Fairy in English) was very funny one day xDDD
Aghhh….These small moments in life when you can laugh…:

Do not piss her off!!!!!!!!!

And a month ago I put my things in order.. How do you like this? ๐Ÿ™‚

People.. please help me to improve my English.. What do I call this furniture? ย  ย  ย  ย O.o ย  ย Dresser? Wardrobe? Cupboard? … ?

My I-dont-know-how-to-call-it furniture.

These are my mom’s parents but they are dead : ( They built the house I visit often and it is the one I was talking about when wrote a post Little Heavenย )

Tatjana Rostoka (My Grandmother)

Linards Rostoks (My grandfather)

Linards had 2 brothers (Haralds and Edgars) and they lived in USA, Iowa. Edgars has 2 children – Liga Rostoks and Lauris Rostoks. They are still alive of course and I managed to contact Lauris. We talked a little bit. I really hope that one day I can go to USA and meet them in person. ๐Ÿ™‚ Our closest relative for both of us is my greatgrandfather and his grandfather Ernests Rostoks. ๐Ÿ™‚ And btw.. I am making a family tree. Still in progress ๐Ÿ™‚

This is my best friends (Madara) Blog.. She is writing in Latvian, but you can see her cat in one of the photos. The cat is called Temida and she is quite young. ๐Ÿ™‚

I am ending this post and I will write another one ๐Ÿ™‚


The Best Advice Ever

Today I want to share with you some valuable information that will definitely change the way you look at your relationship.
The best thing you can do is to find this book and read it:
Gary Capman ”The Five Love Languages”


You may not be aware that you speak in one of five love languages and if that is true, you should find it out. And what is more important – you should let you partner know what your love language is because chances are that he speaks completely different language. This is why so many relationships and marriages end… MANY people feel that ”they do so many things for the other person but somehow your partner does not respond or tell you that he does not feel your love”. This is because of your different languages. You have to learn to speak in your partner’s love language. It may be hard for you to understand it, but you will see how your partner changes because he/she feels loved.

We all act differently when our love tank is full. Fill it up!ย 

Here is a website about 5 love languages and also about the author.

You can find out your love language and also love language for your child by taking a quiz on that website. This is an information you do not skip! This may change you life for better! Use it!

Wedding Invitations

I have a lot of new things that I want to tell you about but right now isn’t really the best time so I will try to do this another day, hopefully soon enough ;D

But I came here to post a picture with invitations for our wedding. Agita and Kaspars’s brother Kristaps helped me to make the invitations.


It is not the best quality but you get the idea. I love them!

The Juicy Fruits Of 5 Year Relationship

This one is an update for my relationships, social life and thoughts on all of that.

As we (Kaspars & Daiga) are getting married in May, 2014, few weeks back we figured that we want to have a special person that can marry us. This is because often in Registry Office ‘marrying’ person is so ”whatever” about your wedding day and also it seems .. cold. Fortunately Kaspars knows Andrejs who is a priest but also has rights to marry people. So we called him and made an appointment. He was happy to see me again, because he had only seen me once.. like.. 4 years ago. We were still together and he was glad. He offered us a preparation course before marriage. And we decided to do it.

Now we have been going to those sessions for more than a month ( he does it for free and in his own free time ) and we have learned a lot of interesting facts. Mostly we already knew basic things about communication, support, sex and so on.. but still there were a lot of new things to think about even from a different view.ย  We are reading a book together which he recommended us, it is called ”To Couples” by Julian Melgosa, Anette D.Melgosa. This book speaks about interesting facts, differences between men and women, and statistics and even researches. Although it is quite ok (the book), the most valuable things we have learned from Andrejs himself.

The best thing about these sessions is that we can discuss these things afterwards. For me the things that I now think about more is:
-Supporting Kaspars in everything he does ( I always have respected him but now I do that even more )
-Accepting the differences in personalities

And I noticed that Kaspars is more understanding that I am a woman which means I like to talk about my feelings.
We feel more happy than ever before.

Few days back we had an argument (No yelling and chair throwing.. simply misunderstanding and hurt feelings). We resolved the problem with talking. Well.. this is nothing new ;D I think the whole planet does this usually ( besides the lunatics ). But I had a major breakthrough!ย –> Usually my girl friends tell me that they are disappointed in their BF’s because after a long talk.. the only thing that he has to say is something like: ” Ok.. Aha… Sorry” . But this is how men usually speak: Short but specific. The breakthrough was that I explained Kaspars that I can’t feel as if the argument is over if the only response is ” Ok”.. ย He now knows that he has to explain his feelings in long sentences.. even saying the same thing two or three times but in different words and only then he has assured me of how he feels and that everything is going to be alright! And he actually tried it during that conversation. He finally understood it. ย  I have no more words for that…. IT WAS SO GOOOOOOD! LIKE A NATURAL! ;DDDD

And I felt like… ย 5 years together… but it was worth it! Communication: ++++++10000000!!!!!


A Dream Of Mine

And this one is for my love.

There are times when I want to sit down and write about him and our life. It is 2:28 a.m. and I think so much that I cant put myself to sleep.

Today we searched the calendar for boy and girl names.. For our children. We seem to miss a little meatball and someone to raise up. Its great that we are on the same level here. ย So about us – Daiga & Kaspars. We are together for 5 years and have been living together for more than 3. We feel like a married couple for a long time and I mean that in a good way. Some people asked me:” So? How did he propose?” and everybody expects a romantic proposal. The thing is that we talked about getting married years before. This was just an activisation of it. Often I get the feeling that if the woman is soo surprised by the proposal it must mean that their communication is at low level. I cant imagine this for myself. Sure, I can imagine romantic proposal but not the surprise. I remember when I was in 9th grade I told one of my classmates that I will marry Kaspars in this life! Well.. That was 4 years ago. When I think about it, it even amazes myself. I cant even fully understand how could I be so sure about something. And where we are now.. Well.. Thats beautiful! We have grown up together in our personalities and we understand each other better than ever. We can finish others sentences, we know what the other one is thinking. It is fun! Few years back we were good friends with married couple. They were recently married, they came from different countries and from the stories the man proposed because he had always wanted a red headed girl. So it happened. One evening we all and some other people were going out. The husband asked us:” How long are you together?” .. We answered and then asked:”Why do you ask?” .. – ” We were holding hands only in the beginning, when we were dating.” and the conversation continued but what I realized then and can also say about the present is that every time we go outside we hold hands. Often we look like young couple that is dating. What happened until this day: We started loving each other even more, we miss each other more. We are so lucky to have that.

I really wish everbody to find that kind of person, to build such relationships and be happy!!! And if you have found one then go for it!!!


So.. yeah. It is pretty much happening!

My fiance promised me that we will be married by the end of summer. When exactly? Don’t know.
But now he told me that he wants to do it sooner. So now I am trying to organize things and find out how much it will cost. You know.. rings, registration, party etc. But we are finding out information and slowly it is getting closer. ๐Ÿ™‚
There are only 3 people that know about this.. soon I will tell my family and my future husband’s family.

This is great! This year we celebrated our 5th anniversary. He is simply the best and I want to live my life together with him. I want to be best friends, best teachers and lovers forever!

5th anniversary

5th anniversary